How to forgive yourself?
Hey there !! Nicole here again. Been a long time and today's Good Friday and today is a perfect day for realizations. I know that a lot of people cannot forgive themselves for something they didn't mean to do. As for me. I also ask that question like every day and every night. People usually told me just to be okay, or 'hey it alright they will forgive you soon.' or the worst is 'the damage has been done so no need to be sorry'. But for me i suffer every night because of guilt. The guilt that i caused so much pain not only to myself but for those people behind it. So how to forgive yourself ?
#1
Pray. Talk to God, talk to him and ask some sign and strength to have courage to face very person you bullied or whatever.
#2
Reach Out. Show your sincerity. You have to do the first move, even they pushed you away you can't just give up easily because you made it you turn them in to their limitation.
#3
Hear their side. Listen to them even it hurts you even they throw rocks at you because as I've said it is your fault and that's the reason your reachin' out and sayin' sorry.
#4
Accept. Accept their decision, but don't accept the words you don't deserve. Even though it seems that everything is falling apart that they can't forgive you, remember that only time could tell and heal them. So learn to accept.
#5
Don't Give Up. Stay strong and be brave enough to live with their decisions. It's hard when they can't accept your forgiveness but i do believe that they can, but not that time. Don't lose hope ! If God can forgive us why can't them ? ryt? It's just that they can't adapt changes within you yet. More like trust issues
But if they still can't fogive you just continue living, you've done you part already you are not your mistake alone. You get me ? I hope i helped !
#1
Pray. Talk to God, talk to him and ask some sign and strength to have courage to face very person you bullied or whatever.
#2
Reach Out. Show your sincerity. You have to do the first move, even they pushed you away you can't just give up easily because you made it you turn them in to their limitation.
#3
Hear their side. Listen to them even it hurts you even they throw rocks at you because as I've said it is your fault and that's the reason your reachin' out and sayin' sorry.
#4
Accept. Accept their decision, but don't accept the words you don't deserve. Even though it seems that everything is falling apart that they can't forgive you, remember that only time could tell and heal them. So learn to accept.
#5
Don't Give Up. Stay strong and be brave enough to live with their decisions. It's hard when they can't accept your forgiveness but i do believe that they can, but not that time. Don't lose hope ! If God can forgive us why can't them ? ryt? It's just that they can't adapt changes within you yet. More like trust issues
But if they still can't fogive you just continue living, you've done you part already you are not your mistake alone. You get me ? I hope i helped !
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